Saturday, March 13, 2010

Mae Dae Mae Dae 100 Bars

Mae Day - 101 bars .mp3
Found at bee mp3 search engine

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Can you turn a he-hoe into a house husband? Lol

I have just a couple of thoughts.

I’m part of a group of SINGLE, college educated professional women who, at the very least on the surface, are pretty cool chicks. I don’t know how others behave when in relationships but they’re cool with me and I think that says a lot lol. Assuming they’re like me, they are having a very hard time finding someone to seriously date.

Now this isn’t going to turn into a why are my friends and I so great yet single piece. I just had some ideas pop into my head that I thought I’d throw out there to wolves and see what others think.

1. Are dudes who are man whores worthy of trying out?? Or is a man whore always a man whore?

I ask this because of something I put on tweeted today.

I typed “Its funny when u mention the name of a guy & every girl in the room makes that face lol he's either not a good person or has ran thru 2 many.”

Now I know a lot of dudes who know a lot of females, A LOT of females and I don’t tend to look at them as someone date-able because they’ve been around the block more than a couple of times. Is that a dating pool that shouldn’t be ignored?? Can a man whore ever redeem himself and become husband material?? Can you turn a he-hoe into a house husband? Lol

2. Letting God lead your search

I’m not talking about having spiritual requirements but leaving your search in God’s hands so to speak, so you do nothing to help aid in your search for a mate. If that’s your method, or non-method, can you complain about not having someone?? Do you think you need to put yourself in situations where you can find your mate? Or will he bring you your mate without any nudge from you at all?

And if you do an active search and not acknowledge God in your search isn’t he really aiding in your search anyway??

So is it best to have it both ways? Actively put out the vibes that you want a boo and let God do his side of it?

What if you’re not ready for a boo but you don’t know that but he knows that and he’s keeping you single til you’re ready. Will you appreciate you boo that much more because you were "ready?"

What if you're like me and don't want to be old as hell getting married and it be too late to have babies. Woops did I just publish a fear? Yep lol